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Aaj tuk hum ye hi sunte aye hain ki ladki to paraya dhan hai ..kisi aur ki amanat hain..shadi ke bad parayi ho jayegi..aur humein ladki ke maa baap se bahaut sahanubhuti hoti hain..ki kaise vo apne jigar ke tukde ko kisi aur ko de denge.. kitni taklif hogi unko..bachpan se hum sab ye hi sunte aur samjhhte aye hain ki shadi ke bad ladki parayi ho jati hain.
Par kya aapne kabhi socha ki ladki hi nahi shadi ke bad to ladka bhi pararaya ho jata hain...ajeeb lag raha hain na sunne mein..par ye bat bilkul such hain.ladka bhi shadi ke bad paraya ho jata hain..chahe vo usi ghar main rahe..par vo ab maan baap ke liye paraya hain..kaise...๐ค๐ค
Ab maan baap bete par apna huk pahle jaise nahi jata sakte..uski patni ke samne usko daant nahi sakte..ek maa jo shadi se pahle bete ki har choti se choti baat ka dhyan rakhti thi..usne khana khaya ya nahi..vo kaha ja raha hain..kub ayega..din bhar kaha tha..uski almari sahi karna..uski galti hone par daantna..pyar ane par godi main sulana...baalo main malish karna....par kya shadi ke bad vo kar payegi..aur agar beta karwana bhi chahe to ye society usko Mumma's boy bata kar uska majak banayegi..isliye vo chah kar bhi apne maa baap se puch kar har kam nahi kar payega ..because now he is a married man..responsible man.
But beti Vida hokar bhi is ghar se Judi rahti hain..life main koi bhi problem aye mummy papa se share karti hain..life ki jane do ...kis sabji main masale kaise padenge....apne bacho ko kaise bada kare..kaise sambhale.. .vo bhi mummy se puchti hain..kyunki usko pata hain ki usko koi Mumma's girl kah kar majak nahi banayega. Vo man se hamesha apne parents se Judi rahti hain.
Isliye shadi ke bad beti hi nahi beta bhi vida hota hain...phark sirf itna hain ki beti is ghar se vida hoti hain..par beta maan baap ki jindagi se....jo shayad aur bhi jyada taklifdeh hain.
Mujhe to aisa hi lagta hain..pls Aap log apne views jarur bataiyega๐
Aaj tuk hum ye hi sunte aye hain ki ladki to paraya dhan hai ..kisi aur ki amanat hain..shadi ke bad parayi ho jayegi..aur humein ladki ke maa baap se bahaut sahanubhuti hoti hain..ki kaise vo apne jigar ke tukde ko kisi aur ko de denge.. kitni taklif hogi unko..bachpan se hum sab ye hi sunte aur samjhhte aye hain ki shadi ke bad ladki parayi ho jati hain.
Par kya aapne kabhi socha ki ladki hi nahi shadi ke bad to ladka bhi pararaya ho jata hain...ajeeb lag raha hain na sunne mein..par ye bat bilkul such hain.ladka bhi shadi ke bad paraya ho jata hain..chahe vo usi ghar main rahe..par vo ab maan baap ke liye paraya hain..kaise...๐ค๐ค
Ab maan baap bete par apna huk pahle jaise nahi jata sakte..uski patni ke samne usko daant nahi sakte..ek maa jo shadi se pahle bete ki har choti se choti baat ka dhyan rakhti thi..usne khana khaya ya nahi..vo kaha ja raha hain..kub ayega..din bhar kaha tha..uski almari sahi karna..uski galti hone par daantna..pyar ane par godi main sulana...baalo main malish karna....par kya shadi ke bad vo kar payegi..aur agar beta karwana bhi chahe to ye society usko Mumma's boy bata kar uska majak banayegi..isliye vo chah kar bhi apne maa baap se puch kar har kam nahi kar payega ..because now he is a married man..responsible man.
But beti Vida hokar bhi is ghar se Judi rahti hain..life main koi bhi problem aye mummy papa se share karti hain..life ki jane do ...kis sabji main masale kaise padenge....apne bacho ko kaise bada kare..kaise sambhale.. .vo bhi mummy se puchti hain..kyunki usko pata hain ki usko koi Mumma's girl kah kar majak nahi banayega. Vo man se hamesha apne parents se Judi rahti hain.
Isliye shadi ke bad beti hi nahi beta bhi vida hota hain...phark sirf itna hain ki beti is ghar se vida hoti hain..par beta maan baap ki jindagi se....jo shayad aur bhi jyada taklifdeh hain.
Mujhe to aisa hi lagta hain..pls Aap log apne views jarur bataiyega๐
Sahi baat hain badi mummy
ReplyDeleteLadki ko toh apne ghar se vida toh hona hi padta hain aur saath mein ladka bhi ho jata hain vida
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ReplyDeleteVery good keep it up๐
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DeleteNice one mausi
ReplyDeleteThanku beta๐๐
ReplyDeleteBilkul sahi.
ReplyDeleteThanku bhabhi๐๐
ReplyDeleteI agree u risha but nt fully...ladki vida hogi ye samaz ne niyam banaye bt ladka vida hoga ye uski khud ki soch se hoga....vo chahe to talmel betha kr subko khush rakh sakta hai..hai ye bahut mushkil bt namumkin nahi...
ReplyDeleteI agree wit u but main bola na blog main...society call him mummas boy..๐...
ReplyDeleteAa-ha.๐ finally boys ke liye bhi kuch likha gaya๐๐.. Good going Di... bht achche...๐๐๐๐๐
ReplyDelete๐๐๐....thanks a lot ๐๐
ReplyDeletewah kya sahi likha hai..
ReplyDeletesare dard ladkiyo ke hi nhi hote kuch ladko ke hisse bhi aye h.ye unhi me se ek hai.jinhe har koi nhi samjhta.very true Risha di
I agree
Thanku sooo much bhabhi..thnx for such encouraging comment๐๐๐๐
ReplyDeleteAabsulutly right
ReplyDeleteThanku๐ค๐ค๐
ReplyDeleteInteresting post Risha..May not be true in all the cases but yeah, most of the time it is true. Relations do change after marriage not only for girls but for boys too. . they have their own challenges which not everyone can understand.. :)
ReplyDeleteThanku naveen...u r right... boys have their own problems...own responsibilities.. which r very hard for them to explain everyone
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