Kon sahi....kon galat🤔🤔

Kon sahi....kon galat🤔🤔🤔

Scene 1st(part A)
Bahu ka dard...
Mere saas sasur mujhe apne hisab se jeene nahi dete..hamesha inke according chalo..akhir meri bhi to life hain.kabhi khana banane ka man na ho to bhi unke liye to banana hi padega...har bat main rok tok..apne man se kapde bhi nahi pahan sakte..hamesha inki beti sahi aur main galat..bete ko bhi apne according chalana chahte hain..phir mujhe laye kyun...freedom to life main hain hi nahi...ghut ghut kar raho.
Part B
Saas ka dard...
Meri bahu jub dekho apni apni chalati hain..hamari to sunti nahi..bete ko bhi apna gulam bana liya..hum to jaise hain hi nahi.meri beti ko dekho kitna kam karti hain sasural main.ye to jo man aye vo kapde pahanti hain..roj bahar jana ...ghar main to man lagta hi nahi..bado se puchne ka koi kam nahi.
Scene 2( part A)
Beti ka dard...
Mere mummy papa bahaut dukhi hain..bhabhi ko dekho ..kuch bhi nahi karti mummy papa ke liye..unhone khana khaya ya nahi khaya..dawai li ya nahi koi matlab nahi .vo kaise rah rahe hain koi dhyan nahi ...apne hisab se rahna..kapde pahnna.. ghar par to kabhi rahti nahi..bhai ko bhi apna gulam bana liya.
(Part B)
Maan ka dard...
Meri beti sasural main itna kam karti hain..saas,sasur naach nacahte hain..unke hi according rahti hain..apne man se kuch nahi kar pati..kapde  bhi unki pasand ke pahno..jawai ko dekho..vo bhi maan baap ke kahne main hi chale..bechari bahaut hi dukhi hain.
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🙂🙂😃😃..kya hua ....kya soch rahe hain..mujhe nahi lagta ..ab kuch kahne ki jarurat hain...aap samjh hi gaye honge main kya kahna chahti hu..ki kon sahi hain ....kon galat.agar hum jo dusro se expect kar rahe hain... khud vaise ban jaye to shayad kisi beti ko apne maan baap ki chinta nahi rahegi..and kisi
maan ko apni beti ki...🤗🤗😉😉

Thoda mushkil jarur hain par ajma kar dekho ..agar aap apne maan baap and beti se sacha pyar karte ho to itna to unke liye kar hi sakte ho ..aapki ye indirect koshish ka unko direct phal mileage..ek bar karke to dekho🤗🤗

दिवाली की भागदौड़ के बाद आओ... थोड़ा सुस्ता ले 😌😴😴😴

दिवाली की भागदौड़ के बाद आओ... थोड़ा सुस्ता ले 😊😴😴

महीनों से थे व्यस्त..
घर की सफाई में...🧹🧹
दिवाली पर थे व्यस्त... घर की सजावट में...✨✨
खुद की सजावट में.💆‍♀️💃
जमावड़ा था मेहमानों का...👨‍👩‍👧‍👦
पकवानो का...🎂🥞🍟🍔
यहाँ वहां आने जाने का....
अब सब कुछ जैसे थम सा गया.
भर दिए नाश्ते वापस डब्बो में...
समेट दी नयी चादरे वापस अलमारी में.
अब नहीं कोई चिंता...
घर थोड़ा बिखरा भी होगा...
नहीं कोई चिंता... बाल थोड़े बिखरे भी होंगे.
चलो ले लो अपना हमेशा का साथी...अपना अखबार 📰...
वो  भी आया मना कर दिवाली...  तीन दिन बाद...
आओ दोपहर में बैठ कर थोड़ा उसे पड़े...
और थोड़ा  सा सुस्ता ले.
अब नहीं कोई भाग दौड़.. आओ खुद से खुद को मिल ले.
आओ दिवाली की भाग दौड़ के  बाद... फिर से  थोड़ा सुस्ता ले 🙂😴😴😴

लक्छमीजी 🙏🙏🙏...कोठी वालों की 🙂

लक्छ्मी जी 🙏🙏🙏... कोठी वालों की 🏠🏠😊

झोपड़े में झुमकी...
हे लक्छमीजी . तुम इस दिवाली हमारे झोपड़े में  आओ ना... सामने  की कोठी में ख़ुशी  के पास तो तुम पहले से ही हो .. मुझे भी तुम्हारी थोड़ी जरुरत हैँ ... प्लीज इस बार मेरी झोपडी में आओ 🙏🙏🙏...झुमकी की माँ...  बेटी.... लक्छमीजी  इस बार भी खुशी की कोठी में ही जाएंगी.. पर क्यों मां... 🤔🤔...क्यूंकि बेटा लक्छमीजी भी पैसे वालों के ही घर जाती हैँ.. .. तू तो इस  गुड़िया से खेल.. आज ख़ुशी की कोठी में दिवाली की सफाई में मिली.. वो फ़ेंक रहे थे.. मै मेरी झुमकी के लिए ले आयी...
टूटी गुड़िया को देख झुमकी लछमीजी को भूल कर गुड़िया से खेलने लगी... उसके चेहरे पर जो ख़ुशी थी वो तो ख़ुशी के चेहरे  पर महंगी गुड़िया से भी नहीं आती...
अब उसको कोई दुख नहीं था अगर इस बार भी लक्छ्मी जी  सामने खुशी की कोठी में जाएंगी 😊.
उसको तो खेलने को कीमती गुड़िया जो मिल गयी थी... जो शायद उसे लक्छमीजी  से भी ज्यादा ख़ुशी दे रही थी 🤗🤗

Vidai....bete ki🚶‍♂️🚶‍♂️🚶‍♂️🚶‍♂️🚶‍♂️

Vidai.....bete ki🚶‍♂️🚶‍♂️🚶‍♂️🚶‍♂️🚶‍♂️

Aaj tuk hum ye hi sunte aye hain ki ladki to paraya dhan hai ..kisi aur ki amanat hain..shadi ke bad parayi ho jayegi..aur humein ladki ke maa baap se bahaut sahanubhuti hoti hain..ki kaise vo apne jigar ke tukde ko kisi aur ko de denge.. kitni taklif hogi unko..bachpan se hum sab ye hi sunte aur samjhhte aye hain ki shadi ke bad ladki parayi ho jati hain.
Par kya aapne kabhi socha ki ladki hi nahi shadi ke bad to ladka bhi pararaya ho jata hain...ajeeb lag raha hain na sunne mein..par ye bat bilkul such hain.ladka bhi shadi ke bad paraya ho jata hain..chahe vo usi ghar main rahe..par vo ab maan baap ke liye paraya hain..kaise...🤔🤔
Ab maan baap bete par apna huk pahle jaise nahi jata sakte..uski patni ke samne usko daant nahi sakte..ek maa jo shadi se pahle bete ki har choti se choti baat ka dhyan rakhti thi..usne khana khaya ya nahi..vo kaha ja raha hain..kub ayega..din bhar kaha tha..uski almari sahi karna..uski galti hone par daantna..pyar ane par godi main sulana...baalo main malish karna....par kya shadi ke bad vo kar payegi..aur agar beta karwana bhi chahe  to ye society usko Mumma's boy bata kar uska majak banayegi..isliye vo chah kar bhi apne maa baap se puch kar har kam nahi kar payega ..because now he is a married man..responsible man.
But beti Vida hokar bhi is ghar se Judi rahti hain..life main koi bhi problem aye mummy papa se share karti hain..life ki jane do ...kis sabji main masale kaise padenge....apne bacho ko kaise bada kare..kaise sambhale.. .vo bhi mummy se puchti hain..kyunki usko pata hain ki usko koi Mumma's girl kah kar majak nahi banayega. Vo man se hamesha apne parents se Judi rahti hain.
Isliye shadi ke bad beti hi nahi beta bhi vida hota hain...phark sirf itna hain ki beti is ghar se vida hoti hain..par beta maan baap ki jindagi se....jo shayad aur bhi jyada taklifdeh hain.
Mujhe to aisa hi lagta hain..pls Aap log apne views jarur bataiyega🙂

Karwa chauth🌛🌜(ek nayi shuruaat)

Karwa chauth🌜🌛(ek nayi shuruaat)

Naina ki shadi ke bad paheli karwa chauth thi... vo bahaut excited thi...kya pahnegi..kaise taiyar hogi..is day ke liye vo bahaut kushi kushi preparation kar rahi thi..tabhi uski 7 saal ki nanad ki beti  Neha...jo ki idhar hi rahti thi apni mummy ke sath ..kyunki uske papa ki kuch saal pahle death ho gayi thi😔....bhagati hui ayi...'mami ye aap kya kar rahe ho..kitni sunder saree hain'...beta ye main kal pahnunngi kal karwa chauth hain...oh mean aapka happy day and mumma aur mera sad day😔...kahte hue Neha udas ho gayi ....itni choti si bachi ke mooh se ye sun kar Naina ko bahaut bura laga..usne usko goad main bithaya, phir pucha ...beta aise kyun kah rahi ho...'mami kal mumma bahaut udas rahti hain...bahar bhi nahi ati.. nani mana karti hain and puja bhi nahi karti ...mujhe mumma ko aise dekh kar acha nahi lagta.'
Neha bole ja rahi thi and Naina ke man main kuch aur chal raha tha ....usne Neha se pucha...batao isme se tumhe konsi sari pasand hain ...Neha ne ek saree par haath lagaya... Naina ne vo saree almari se nikal kar uski sab matching ready kar li ...tabhi Neha ki frnds aa gayi aur vo unke sath khelne cahli gayi.

Next day sab fast ki taiyari kar rahe the ..Naina ki saas ne use taiyar hone ko kaha ...usne kaha mummy bus abhi ayi  ...vo Neha ki pasand ki saree lekar apni nanad ke kamre main gayi aur apni nanad ko usko pahnne ko kaha ...Neha ki maa ne jub mana kiya to Naina ne kaha... thik hain main bhi taiyar nahi hongi.. aur mera fast tub hi sahi se hoga jub aap mere sath rahoge..Neha ki maa ne usko bahaut samjhaya but Naina nahi mani..aur kaha ki apni nahi to Neha ki kushiyon ke liye hi man jao..akhir Neha ki maa ko taiyar hona pada aur bahar bhi ana pada..Neha apni mummy ko dekh kar bahaut kush hui ..vo apni mami aur mummy ke sath sab taiyari main busy ho gayi ...uska excitment alag hi dikh raha tha ...kyuni uski mummy jo uske sath thi..raat ko chand dekhne ke bad sab Khana khane baithe to Neha ne aakar Naina ko Hug kiya and kaha ....'thanku mami... meri mummy ka Sad day.. Happy day banane ke liye' ..itna sunte hi sabki aankho main aasu aa gaye..but vo dukh ke nahi ...kushi ke  aasu the🙂..Naina such main bahaut kush thi.
And soch rahi thi ki hamare liye aisi kushi kis kam ki jo kisi ke dukh ko aur badaye
.kisi ke dukh  ko kum karne ...usko thodi kushiyan dene se hi to tyohar..tyohar banta hain...aaj vo such main bahaut kush thi🤗🤗

Agle janam mohe bitiyaan hi kijo🤔🤔?

Agle janam mohe bitiya hi kijo🤔?

Ladki....
Jeans Pahnu... main galat..
Rat ko party karu ... main galat...
Ladko ke sath bat karu... main galat
Ladke mujhe chede..  main galat..
Ladke mere sath galat harkat kare..to bhi ....main galat.

Ladke..
Rat ko party..ladke hain
Ladkiyon ko chede..ladke hain
Ladkiyon ko neecha dikhye.. ladke hain
Ladkiyon ko galat najar se dekhe..ladke hain.

Oh ab samjha aya... ladkiyon ka praywachi (synonym)Galat..and ladko ka praywachi Sahi hain.

Phir main kaise kahu 🤷‍♀️..Agle janam mohe bitiya hi kijo🤔?

Ye un dino ki baat hain🤗🤗

Ye un dino ki baat hain🤗🤗

Mummy mujhe late ho raha hain school ke liye ...mera tiffin do jaldi....papa aaj sham ko mele main chalenge...vaha pls mujhe colddrink dilana....bhaiya tujhko kitni bar bola.... mere saman ke hath kyun lagaya...mummy aap hamesha didi ka favour liya karo...main to phaltu hu na...frnds chalo chippan chupayi khelne...nahi pakdam pakdayi khelenge.
Aaj to budhwar (wednesday) hain ...aaj to chitrahar ayega...God shami Kapoor ka gana aa jaye..aur agar us time light chali gayi to😔.is baar Ramayana main bhagwan Ram Sita ko lene Lanka jayenge...mummy aap khana jaldi bana lena nahi to ramayana nahi dekh paoge...are koi upar jakar aintina hilao..picture Sahi nahi aa rahi..mummy dadi hamesha gussa karti hain ki ramayana ke time hath jod kar kyun nahi baithe.
Mummy is bar garmiyon ki chuttiyon main mama ke yaha 1 mahine ke liye chalenge....are beta school se akar kapde to badal le..mummy bhul gayi kya kal Sunday hain..main to khelne ja raha hu.
Mummy aaj pados se uncle aye the ....unke yaha shadi hain to gamle lekar gaye hain ghar sajane ko..main bhi unki help karne ja raha hu.
Aaj tu tiffin main kya layi hain...chal lunch karte hain...are abhi to 2nd period hain...teacher daantengi
..koi nahi chupke se khate hain.

Are kya hua dosto....kaha kho gaye sab ..vapas aa jaiye ...ye to ...'Un dino ki bat hain.🙂
Ye befikri ,beparwahi..ab kaha naseeb...ab to tub ki beparwahi ne kub jimmedari ki Chadar ood li...pata hi nahi chala.isliye kisi ne kya khub kaha hain....
          '  School ka vo bag
             Phir se thama de maa
             Ye jindagi ka bojh
              Uthana mushkil hain'

Tabhi to har insaan ko apna bachpan itna pyara hota hain..in yaadon se kabhi bahar hi nahi ana chahta.yaddon main jakar vapas bacha ban jata hain..such bataiyega..aap log bhi ban gaye the na bacha..aapke chehre par bhi ek mitthi muskan thi na.
Kyun nahi hogi ...akhir 'ye un dino ki bat hain'😊

Safai(cleaning)👩‍💻👨‍💻🧹🧹

In dino ghar ghar main diwali ki safai chal rahi hain...ye hamara bahaut purana custome hain ...diwali ke liye hum mahine bhar pahle se saaf safai main lag jate hain..is bahane ghar main jami saal bhar ki dhool bhi saaf ho jati hain..aur hum log ko hamara aisa  purana saman mil jata hain.. jisse hamari kafi yadein  Judi hoti hain..ya jo saman bekar hota hain hamare liye ...but kisi aur ke liye jarurat hota hain ...usko ghar se nikal kar na sirf hamara ghar halka hota hain hamara man bhi halka ho jata hain.

Jub bhi safai shabd sunte hain to man mein ye hi ata hain...ghar ki safai..colony ki safai...ya hamare desh ki safai...aajkal to log aware bhi bahaut ho rahe hain desh ko swach banane mein..ek bar gandagi phailane se pahle sochte hain.

But kya safai se matlab bus ye hi hain kya.... kya aur bhi aisi jagah nahi hain jaha ki safai ki bhi bahaut jarurat hain...ek aisi jagah jo hum log ki jindagi ka hissa hain ...  jaha hum hamara adha time Gujararte hain..vo hain Social media.

Ab aap soch rahe honge social media ki safai matlab...par ye ek aisi jarurat hain jiski safai honi bahaut jaruri hain
.and ek Bollywood actress Ananya pandey ne bhi 2nd October ko iske liye awaz uthayi hain...aur such mein ye ek bahaut hi jaruri initiative hain..hum sabko is taraf dhyan dene ki jarurat hain.
Aajkal log agar kisi se gussa hain to social media ka use karte hain...kisi se hurt hue to social media...bina vajah kisiko troll karte hain ye bhi nahi sochte ki jisko  shikar bana rahe hain usko kitna hurt hoga...aur agar aapko kisi  se shikayat hain to personally jakar batao ..duniya ko batane ki kya jarurat hain......
Kisi ki picture ko edit karke uska misuse karna...aur bhi na jane kya kya gandagi phailate hain...fake videos ko such bata kar viral kar dete hain...kitni bar is bat se logo mein disputes ho jate hain...bahahut hi critical situation ho jati hain.
Kai bar log itna hurt ho jate hain ki bahaut hi gambhir kadam utha lete hain jiska main jikar bhi nahi karna pasand karungi.
So pls I request to everyone pls social media ka use positivity ke liye karo... kyun negativity phailana..agar kisi se shikayat hain to personally mil kar door karo.
But pls social media ko apne ghar ki jaise saaf rakho🙏

Tum karti hi kya ho( A true story of housewives)

Tum karti hi kya ho(A true story of housewives)

Mummy kal mere tiffin mein samosa rakhna...mere frnds ko bahaut pasand hain...nahi mummy main veg idli lekar jaounga..hamesha iski manmani nahi chalegi...are ladai mut karo .... main dono ki pasand ka rakh dungi..payal ne bacho ki ladai khatam karte hue kaha.payal kal mujhe jaldi jana hain ..meeting hain..to khana jaldi ready kar dena and haan kuch acha rakhna ..sath main aur log bhi honge.Apne patidev ki bat sun payal ek bar to tension main ayi... par phir boli thik hain main ready kar dungi.
Vaise uska alarm 5:30 ka hain... par kal jaldi hain ...so usne 5 o'clock ka set kar diya.Bed par leti hi thi ki yad aya are idli ke liye suji to bhigoyi hi nahi ...vo kitchen main suji bhigone chali gayi.Subah alarm bajte hi vo machine ki jaise kam main lag gayi aur sabki pasand ke according khana ready karne lagi ..tubhi gas khatam ho gayi..ek bar to usko laga patidev ki help le ..par dekha vo ready ho rahe hain..so khud hi cylinder lagana lagi...table par rakhi chai uska wait kar rahi thi par vo chah kar bhi uske pas nahi ja pa rahi thi.
Akhir bhag daud karke  sabko bhejne ke bad socha... ab chain se baith kar chai peete hain.tabhi uska mobile baja... maid ka phone tha...madam aaj kam par nahi aaoungi.. . tabiyat sahi nahi hain.sunte hi payal ka dimag bhanna gaya..sink mein rakhe dher bartan usko mooh chida rahe the aur puri tarah bikhra ghar aisa lag raha tha jaise koi rakshas khada ho.bujhe man se usne thandi chai ek ghut main khatam kari aur kam main lag gayi.kam khatam karte karte usko 12 baj gaye ..tabhi yad aya ki dryclean vale ke 1 month se kapde rakhe hain... aaj to lekar hi ana padega.. .ready hokar vo kapde layi...itne mein bacho ke ane ka time ho gaya..unke ate hi unko khana khila kar homework karane lagi...bache bole mummy aaj sham ko special banana ...roti sabji kha kar bore ho gaye.Payal sham ki planning karne lagi ...tabhi patidev aa gaye..kah rahe the aaj ka din bahaut hactic tha... kul sunday..late tuk uthunga...Sunte hi Payal boli main bhi aaj bahaut thak gayi... kal main bhi aram karungi..sun kar bache hasne lage..mummy aapka to roj hi Sunday hota hain... aap to aram se ghar hi rahti ho...pati
Dev bhi bole... aur vaise bhi tum din bhar karti hi kya ho..har cheej ki to maid hain.sunte hi Payal ki aankho main aasu aa gaye ...vo washroom ke bahane apne asu chipane lagi.
Vapas ayi to dekha sab log masti kar rahe hain ...has rahe hain ..vo apni family ki kushiyan main in aasu ki vajah se badha nahi banna chahti thi ...vo bhi unke sath masti karne lagi..par dimag main uske kahi na kahi cahl raha tha ki such main..'.vo din bhar karti hi kya hain'.😔🤷‍♀️

Akhir mera kusur hi kya tha..🤔😔

Akhir mera kusur hi kya tha..🤔😔

Ek maan baap ne apne bache ko isliye ghar se nikal diya..kyunki usme sanskaar nahi the🙄..ek ne isliye nikal diya ki bache ka rang saanwla tha..aur rishtedar tana dete the...aur kisine isliye..ki bache ka man nahi lagta tha.
Aap soch rahe honge..aisa kaise ho sakta hain..maine bhi jub ye news paper mein padi to bahaut hi surprise hua...koi maan baap apne bache ko itni choti si bat par  ghar se nikal denge..unbelievable.par aisa hi hua hain...bus phark itna sa hain ki vo bache unke sage nahi goad(adopt) liye hue hain.
To ...to kya hua ..akkhir goad liya bacha kya unka nahi hua...jub unko jarurat thi apne jeevan ka sunapan dur karne ke liye..apni jindagi ki kumi puri karni thi...apni kushiyan chahiye thi ..to unko goad le liye aur ab itni choti si bat par ghar se nikal diya ..mano vo koi bache nahi ...saman ho jo kam nahi ane par bahar phaink diya.
Agar bache main sanskar nahi the ..to use pyar se samjhate ...sikhate...aur hasi ati hain... bache ka rang saanwla hain ..to use dutkar diya...are un rishtedaro ke tano ki parwah kar rahe ho... tub kyun nahi kari jub tumne bacha goad liya ..unhone to tub bhi bat banayi hogi...par tub tumhe khud ki kushiyon se matlab tha...aur haan kisi  ne isliye nikal diya ki bache ka man nahi lag raha..to koshish to karte usko apna banane ki...usko man se nahi apnaoge to uska man kaha se lagega.pahal to tumko hi karni thi.
Ek bar dil par haath rakh kar puuncho...kya tum apne khud ke bache  ko ghar se nikal dete...kabhi nahi...
.vo to tumhare sir par khada hokar nache.. tub bhi nahi nikaloge.
Are bhagwan ne to in bacho ko anaath bana kar pahle hi anyay kiya hai..kaise bhi karke ye apni jindagi se samjhota karke chal rahe the..tumne inko apnakar phir phaink diya ..tumne to inko kahi ka nahi rahne diya.ab ye kaise vapas purani duniya main ja payenge
. Inko sapne dikha kar tod diye..kyun.
Ye bache ..aur bhagwan tumhe kabhi maanf kar payenge.. are unki to jane do..tumhara jameer tumhe jeene dega..are par main bhi kya bol rahi hu ..jo log itna ghinona kam kar sakte hain..kya unka koi jameer hoga...nahi.
Ye bache jindagi bhar ye hi sawal samaj se poochenge..ki humko pahle apnaya hi kyun..aur phir pehnka hi kyun....isme hamara kya dosh tha.😔😔